Therefore consider carefully how you listen.  Luke 8:18

Hear God's word and put it into practice.  Luke 8:21

To consider carefully means to mull it over in your mind, to look at it from all angles. It means reflecting on it, understanding that some truths reveal themselves slowly. Only careful consideration will reveal flawed assumptions. It introduces objectivity.

In my unexamined, subjective world, I may think I'm listening to God, when in fact my listening is only in the moment, resulting in no change, like the seed falling on the rock. Or I may earnestly listen, but then find my commitment crowded out by other issues that I've given a higher priority, issues that come to me in the form of worries.

Jesus isn't really interested in the words we say. He knows we'll say anything. He's really interested in what we do. He's interested in our follow through. Do we do what we say we'll do? Do we listen to him and then do we obey him? Those are the key issues for Jesus.

When I do listening prayer, I like to write down what I perceive God to be saying to me in a journal. Often it's a passage of Scripture that seems to be him pointing at an area of my life, calling me to account. For example, this last week, I felt he was saying, 'Feed my sheep.'

There are different ways of reading this passage. I can read it from a student's perspective as many do and say, 'That's about Jesus calling out Peter.' Or I can read it for application, but still at arm's length by saying, 'It's a good idea to take care of sheep.'

Or, I can read it with conviction (which is what listening prayer brings) and say, 'God is speaking to me about the people in this room. He wants to communicate that he loves them and he wants me to be his instrument in doing so.'

I believe that's how we put Luke 8:18, 21 into practice. I believe that's how we move Jesus from the position of acquaintance (95% of "Christians") to friend (4% of "Christians") to Lord (1% or less of "Christians").